Friday

Getting married in Turkey...

I don't have SO much to write about yesterday cause nothing really happened... We were at the salon a little then home.. And my father called and we talked a little about my wedding. He asked what expectations I had about wedding party etc cause he couldn't afford to throw me a big one but he would fix more in Norway, but honestly I had not even thought that my parents would pay for anything at all, I was just happy they would come and didn't expect anything.. I still don't, I don't think that it's their responsibility to pay for my wedding party :) It's enough for me that they will be here, to be honest.


I am very happy about the fact that we are putting aside a little money when we have, we have saved almost 600TL now, and it is good because it's gonna be more expensive than I thought.. We really had not thought of the practical things, like for example translation of papers which would cost about 200 TL, we have to go to the hospital and take blood tests, for AIDS or something, and various other things. And since my parents will come I also want wedding dress, I will rent one, not buy, and it will also be about 200 TL.


I also need papers from Norway, but I was told that the only papers I need to show for here is  my birth certificate and papers that confirm that I am not married in Norway.  I hope that I don't need to go to Norway and fix that but in worst case scenario I will take from my Ikamet money and fix it, cause what else can I do?  I am crossing my fingers and toes that I won't need to goooo.. I don't wanna go seriously. I wanna stay stay and stay! And it's expensive to go too, I didn't find ONE ticket under 4000 (back and forth) ...  We are also trying to save money for honeymoon, which will go to.... ALANYA! :P   (Surprise surprise) 




Well other than that I was really irritated at him yesterday for something he said, and I had a long talk with Ida about it. I decided to let it pass this time but next, if there will be a next, it won't be so easy.  But I got to admit that no matter how angry I get at him, it feels like heaven to fall asleep in his arms. 


Now we are going to centrum :)


See ya !

3 comments:

  1. Hellu :) når jeg skulle gifte meg (thank God that didn't happen) måtte jeg fylle ut et skjema i Norge som måtte oversettes til tyrkisk, i tillegg få noe greier fra folkeregisteret som skulle oversettes, så prøves, og prøvingen skulle også oversettes. Husker ikke om jeg måtte oversette hans prøving til norsk eller om vi fikk den på engelsk... Brukte to måneder på alt sammen og det kostet nesten 3000 kr. Etter bryllupet må man få ekteskapsinngåelsen på engelsk eller få den også oversatt fra tyrkisk, før man kan levere den inn. Er MANGE papirer, og best at man får med seg alt, slik at man slipper noe stress etterpå. Mye verre å fikse dette, enn ikamet som du har mast så mye om :) Men du kjenner sikkert mange av disse jentene som har giftet seg i Tyrkia og kan fortelle hva de måtte ordne.

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  3. Seriøst?? Camilla sa at hun bare trengte å levere fødselsattest og attest om at ikke hun var gift i Norge, men at det var flere papirer som måtte ordnes for at det skal registreres i norge :S Vi får gå å spør dem i sentrum i morgen hva vi trenger.. Uhm.. hvor skal vi gå for å spør om det egentlig ? :P

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